Discover success with highly tailored and impactful personal coaching. At The Motivating Coach we understand that your goals are as unique as your are. Whether it's weight loss, relationships, career advancement, personal satisfaction, or financial stability, we create a personalized roadmap just for you. We believe that no goal is too big or too small if you're passionate about achieving it. With our guidance and support, we'll help you break it down into achievable stepping stones. Discover the power of personalized coaching and let us help you navigate your path to success.
Grow Tik-tok audience (so far 300k+ strong and 5.2 MILLION likes!!)
Organize old family photos to the cloud and arrange the hard copies (done and dusted!)
Learn a new language (started classes)
Move to a new country (applying for jobs in said country, achieved and flourishing!!)
Become more active (6am classes 6 days a week)
Finding a soulmate
Having a green thumb
Planning for a baby
Being consistent with your Social Media content
Starting a business
Writing a book
Getting into your dream job
Applying for the best Ivy league schools
Building confidence
Increasing social life
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Literally anything under the sun and moon, if you want it, we can achieve it!
Best question EVER! Yes and No. Honestly, I am a life coach and I have a life coach, why? Because no matter how much I study, and understand about limiting beliefs, values, self reflection, goal setting and more. Looking at your life from your perspective is personal, and your emotions come to play. When you have a coach they ask those silly questions you don't ask yourself because for you its status quo.
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If I could put it into terms gen z and millennials (hopefully you oldies) understand:
Looking at your life through your own eyes, is like putting a filter on a video, while having a coach makes you see the video with no filter.
Filters include: unhealthy boundaries, weird relationships, terrible work life balance, "that's just the way it is, deal with it" mentality as well as really really toxic negative self talk (I cant do it, I am not special, what makes me different?).
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So yes you can totally live your life on your own and organize it the way you want to. You are already doing that.. its the status quo. But no if you want to challenge the status quo and get more out of life. Why settle for status quo when you can reach heights you have never even given your chance to imagine?
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The best part of coaching, is the tools and knowledge you gain to then coach yourself. This isn't a sacred secret art form, coaching is a way of shifting mindset, and when you have shifted your mindset, you gain the tools and the ability to coach yourself.
There are SO many benefits to having a life coach I can literally list 100, but I literally cant type forever, so here are the top 20. If you ever want the 100, find me and I promise to list them to you face to face!
Reduces procrastination
Encourages setting healthy boundaries
Improves life skills and behaviors
Organizes your day to day
Enhanced work-life balance
Gives you direction
Better decision making
Allows you to explore new options and ideas in a safe space
Challenges you to do MORE
Improved interpersonal skills
Clarity, commitment and visioning your success
Gives you new perspective on your life (lets remove toxic-ness!)
Self-reflection is KEY
Supports your journey and is your life vest when you feel like your drowning
Strategies and goals defined to suit your needs and modified where needed.
Accountability to keep your promise to yourself
Commitment to your personal journey of success
Consistency to keep you going, no more maybe another day thinking, today is the DAY
Increased confidence
Enhanced self-awareness
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I really could go on and on.. okay 5 more
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21. Experience greater satisfaction in life
22. Allows you to achieve goals
23. Helps you prioritize your life, to remove that feeling of overwhelmingness.
24. Helps you do things you thought were not possible!
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and my absolute favorite..
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25. Gives you OWNERSHIP of your success, coaching allows you to be the driver, to be the one in charge, we love you to be independent and make your OWN decisions. We like a loving parent guide you through questions, but when all is said and done, YOU achieved that goal. YOU made it possible. So that feeling of accomplishment, that's all for you.
Having a life coach is literally like having a map on a road trip. You can still get to your destination without a map, but having a map makes the trip easier, much shorter and also allow you to enjoy the ride, instead of wondering how far you still are from the destination. You see the benefits of the map when you reach your destination, but also see it when you make pit stops and enjoy stops you didn't know you were going to make but are very happy you decided to make them.
A mentor or expert, will tell you how they did it, and how they succeeded and teach you their ways.
**Directive: Mentor will do all of the talking and client all of the listening
A life coach helps you create an action plan tailored to your strengths values and way of thinking, through raising your awareness and helping you reflect on personal situations.
**Non-directive: Coaches go with the 20/80 rule (you talk 80 and we talk 20) coaches give the space for their clients to reflect and talk.
Mentoring:
Mentoring is often longer-term with some mentoring relationships lasting 6+ months and in several cases mentoring can last years or even decades. In fact, some famous mentors and mentees cite lifelong mentoring relationships.
No qualifications are required for mentoring.
The mentor shares their knowledge, experience and skills, telling the mentee and guiding them through direction.
Mentoring is less structured than coaching
Mentoring is mainly development driven and looks to the mentee to decide what they wish to achieve and which goals they have for their mentoring relationships.
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Coaching:
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Coaching is often shorter-term and may be as short as a quick 10- or 15-minute conversation.
There is training in coaching skills and a lot of coaching qualifications are available, and necessary to be a truly effective coach.
Coaching is non-directive which means that it is about posing the right questions, providing the space, trust and confidence for the individual being coached to consider how they can achieve more, reach their objectives and find capabilities within themselves.
Coaching is structured
Coaching is performance driven and encourages the individual or individuals being coached to perform in their day-to-day roles.
Both focus on wellbeing, but therapy is for mental wellbeing and processing past traumas and mental health. While coaching focuses on performance and day to day improvements, as well as goals.
You need a therapist if:
You experience mental health symptoms that cause distress in your life
anxiety, depression, D.E
You want to heal from past trauma
You need help understanding your emotions and actions
You are experiencing relationship issues
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You need a life coach if:
You want to get your life moving
You want to achieve goals you have
You want to be promoted or move on to the next best thing
You want to understand what holds you back
You want to create a plan of action to get stuff done
You feel like your life is on autopilot and you know you deserve MORE
You want to break out of your comfort zone
You feel like something is missing
You want to create healthy habits
You want to improve your life
You want to stop that negative talk and live your best life!
You desire a life with purpose and meaning but do not know where to start.
You feel confused about the next chapter in your life (i.e. struggling with career decisions, major life choices) and would like guidance on what would best serve you.
You want to tap your inner motivation for a major goal, such as running a marathon.
You want to hold yourself more accountable, whether in your personal or professional life
Nope, a good life coach will NEVER give you advice, the day they give you advice is the day they own your life.
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Why not?
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The most important thing in life coaching is ownership. You owning the decisions you make in your life. Anyone who gives you advice takes away the beauty of feeling success in your own decision making capabilities. If you have ever had a life coach who gave you advice, then you have not experienced real coaching. The way you think and the experiences in your life are personal and unique to you, the way you handle situations correctly and effectively is just as unique and personal.